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Now a days, loads or maybe even most of my friends don´t live near me ( don´t worry, I also got some friends where I live, hahaha) and sometimes I just miss them. Sometimes I just want that particular friend here, but she lives hours away and I am not gonna meet her for another few weeks or months. It is a bit like being homesick. It sucks sometimes. We all study for different degrees at different universities. Nevertheless I believe in long-distance friendships and thinking your friendship is gonna break because of distance, to me, it is just stupid. Why should it? I remember a friend writing in my travel diary a quote from Winnie the pooh " Never apart, maybe in distance but Never by heart " and I think that is true for good friends, for boy- or girlfriends for family..
If you are making good friends while travelling, don´t be sad to leave them, instead make an effort to keep in touch and maybe plan future travels together. If you read my other posts, you know by now that I have very good friends who I met e.g. in Australia which was like almost 2 years ago. Since then we have been on various adventures together and our friendship is still going strong, but we live hours apart. If you go along time without seeing each other, just pick up the phone and give ´em a call or send around little postcards. I once send around little hearts to tell my friends how important they are for me even if they are miles away.;)
In this modern-age distance shouldn´t be an issue and on the bright side, you will always have an open door somewhere else in the world.
I hope this might bring a smile to your face, if you have a friend who lives far away from you. (Why not give him or her a call right now):)
So beautifully written girl! Well done!
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DeleteThank you for your words, Lisa.:)
DeleteI totally agree. Although it can be really hard when you're in different time zones. I end up sending a whatsapp message, so they'll get it eventually!!
ReplyDeleteI think it's lovely to keep in touch with all your friends no matter where each one lives because that way you feel connected and you can share different stories.
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Yes and it is always nice to hear each others stories.;)
DeleteThis is such a good point! I struggle to keep in contact with friends who are living far away (and that's a lot of people these days, given I have home friends and uni friends and au pair friends) but I find that social media and an occasional long catch up is the easiest way to make sure I don't lose contact forever :)
ReplyDeleteYes, social media can help a lot, but I also often prefer to call the person every once in a while:)
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